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Teaching your children (and yourself) to embrace life
13 May 2016

Teaching your children (and yourself) to embrace life

by judy | posted in: About You, About Your Kids, About Your World | 0

I love this video! It was going viral on Friday and I absolutely needed to share it with you. Why? Because it’s an example of wonderful responsive loving parenting, And an example of joyously embracing life with your child. I … Continued

How to Stop Beating Yourself Up and Be a Good Parent
13 May 2016

How to Stop Beating Yourself Up and Be a Good Parent

by judy | posted in: About You, About Your World | 0

“What am I doing wrong?” – I hear this from parents often, especially when their children have a meltdown in the store. Parents are embarrassed, ashamed. They feel that everyone is judging them, and worse, they are judging themselves. I’m … Continued

Self-confident kids and the importance of taking risks
13 Aug 2015

Self-confident kids and the importance of taking risks

by judy | posted in: About You, About Your Kids, About Your World | 0

“Be back in time for dinner!” That was me as a kid as I ran out the door to go play with my friends. I lived in a four room apartment on the 8th floor of a New York City … Continued

Restaurant 101: take the fear out of dining out with young kids
13 Jun 2015

Restaurant 101: take the fear out of dining out with young kids

by judy | posted in: About You, About Your Kids, About Your World | 0

“Let’s stop and get something to eat.” “You’re sure?” “Yeah.” “I have lots of snacks.” “I know. But I want a meal.” “Ok, but only if you’re ready for it.” Before you were a parent, eating out was a pleasure. … Continued

Ancient Tradition vs the Modern World: Why we still need a Breastfeeding Week
13 May 2015

Ancient Tradition vs the Modern World: Why we still need a Breastfeeding Week

by judy | posted in: About You, About Your Kids, About Your World | 0

“New mothers need to suckle their babies right after birth to help them get their milk flowing well”.  New research? Not at all. This quote, by Inuit Elder Lena Wolkie, appears in an Inuit booklet for expectant moms. Lena is … Continued

Dealing with Overwhelm When Life Doesn’t Roll Easy
13 May 2015

Dealing with Overwhelm When Life Doesn’t Roll Easy

by judy | posted in: About You, About Your World | 0

“So here are the choices,” I said to the nice man at the computer store. “I can take the computer and smash it, or I can take the keys, shut the store and go home. Unless you have another suggestion.” … Continued

Introducing Solids to Your Baby
13 May 2015

Introducing Solids to Your Baby

by judy | posted in: About You, About Your Kids, About Your World, Podcast | 0

“Do you see what I see?” I asked this question as I was sitting with a number of new moms and their babies. Some of the babies were 3 or 4 months old and there was one that was 6 … Continued

A parent’s guide to Climate Change and your child’s future
19 Apr 2015

A parent’s guide to Climate Change and your child’s future

by judy | posted in: About You, About Your Kids, About Your World | 0

What I’m about to tell you isn’t good news. Climate change is real. When I look 20 or 30 years down the road, I see that the planet is headed for environmental disaster if things don’t shift. There are some … Continued

Wild: the journey and adventure of being a mom
15 Jan 2015

Wild: the journey and adventure of being a mom

by judy | posted in: About You, About Your World | 0

Reese Witherspoon as Cheryl Strayed in Wild. Photo by Anne Marie Fox/Fox Searchlight Pictures A few days ago I went to see the Academy Award nominated movie “Wild” on the big screen. “Wild” tells the real life story of Cheryl … Continued

Teaching Your Children How to Stop Violence Against Women
23 Nov 2014

Teaching Your Children How to Stop Violence Against Women

by judy | posted in: About You, About Your Kids, About Your World | 0

I was going to write about dressing babies for the cold this week. But got sidetracked by all the news about sexual and domestic violence. The topic, of course, is not new. But the fact that it is being brought … Continued

How to make your 5yr old more powerful than a politician
2 Nov 2014

How to make your 5yr old more powerful than a politician

by judy | posted in: About You, About Your World | 0

This is not supposed to happen in Canada.The radio program I was listening to was interrupted to report a shooting in our nation’s capital. “An unarmed soldier was shot and killed while standing guard at the Ottawa Cenotaph honouring our … Continued

Celebrating Earth Day with Your Kids: Love the Earth, Love Your Mama
12 Apr 2014

Celebrating Earth Day with Your Kids: Love the Earth, Love Your Mama

by judy | posted in: About Your Kids, About Your World | 0

Love the Earth, Love Your Mama Mother Earth. It’s a phrase commonly used in our culture, though we rarely think about what it really means. As Earth Day rolls around, it’s a good time to step back and give some … Continued

About Dads: the special role Dad’s play in the lives of Moms and babies
9 May 2011

About Dads: the special role Dad’s play in the lives of Moms and babies

by judy | posted in: About Your World | 0

May is Mom’s Month and all of our newsletters this month are focusing on Mom’s and Mothering. But before any woman can become a mom, there has to be a Dad. So this week we want to talk about the … Continued

Going, going and going
13 Sep 2009

Going, going and going

by judy | posted in: About You, About Your World | 0

Today I was walking along the lakeside pathway in our local park and passed by the exercise circuit. Two five year old girls were using one of the machines and one says to the other: “This is so much fun. … Continued

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  • Stress in Young Children: What are the Signs and What to Do – Part 3
  • Stress in Young Children: What are the Signs and What to Do – Part 2
  • Stress in Young Children: What are the Signs and What to Do – Part 1
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