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Kids and tall trees, blue skies and mighty seas
12 Apr 2018

Kids and tall trees, blue skies and mighty seas

by judy | posted in: About Your Kids | 0

I took a much-appreciated vacation this past week, going to the beautiful, some say magical coastal town of Tofino, BC. The road to Tofino wound dizzyingly through glorious snow covered peaks, sparkling mountain lakes, lush rainforests, and along the mighty … Continued

When your kids don’t meet your expectations
12 Mar 2018

When your kids don’t meet your expectations

by judy | posted in: About Your Kids | 0

From the moment our children are born, we are checking the charts, comparing our babies with the “shoulds” of whatever age they are. We constantly compare with other parents, with our relatives, with other kids in our children’s classes. We … Continued

But… my first child wasn’t like this!
12 Oct 2017

But… my first child wasn’t like this!

by judy | posted in: About Your Kids | 0

“Be careful to step away from the water spray,” the mom said to her 3-year-old daughter. It was a very hot day and the store next to the crosswalk where we all stood waiting to cross had its water mister … Continued

Are you raising a “spoiled” child?
12 Aug 2017

Are you raising a “spoiled” child?

by judy | posted in: About Your Kids, Podcast | 0

The issue of “spoiling a child” is obsessive in our culture. And now, seeing as it’s summer, a lot of people have family visiting. So even though the weather is lovely, moms have been telling me they are having a tough time … Continued

Should you push your kids to be independent?
12 Jul 2017

Should you push your kids to be independent?

by judy | posted in: About Your Kids, Podcast | 0

“Don’t be such a momma’s boy.”  “Careful you don’t turn her into a daddy’s girl.” When it comes to the development of young children, there is such a strong push in our culture to force kids to be independent, even … Continued

Teaching your children (and yourself) to embrace life
13 May 2016

Teaching your children (and yourself) to embrace life

by judy | posted in: About You, About Your Kids, About Your World | 0

I love this video! It was going viral on Friday and I absolutely needed to share it with you. Why? Because it’s an example of wonderful responsive loving parenting, And an example of joyously embracing life with your child. I … Continued

Positive Discipline for the Terrible Twos
13 May 2016

Positive Discipline for the Terrible Twos

by judy | posted in: About Your Kids, Podcast | 0

When it comes to toddler behaviour, have you ever wondered why it is sometimes referred to as the Terrible Twos? This week, I recorded a podcast where I explain the various aspects of a toddler’s development and why it’s so important for … Continued

Stress in Young Children: What are the Signs and What to Do – Part 3
18 Mar 2016

Stress in Young Children: What are the Signs and What to Do – Part 3

by judy | posted in: About Your Kids | 0

Imagine… You are in the middle of a terrifying experience. You desperately need help. You call your “significant other”. Crying, you tell them what is happening and to please come to help you. “That’s your problem.” they say – and … Continued

Stress in Young Children: What are the Signs and What to Do – Part 2
28 Feb 2016

Stress in Young Children: What are the Signs and What to Do – Part 2

by judy | posted in: About Your Kids | 0

When I sat down to write this blog post, part 2 of a series on stress in young children, it gave me pause for reflection on the stress in my life and forced me to look at my own patterns. For … Continued

Stress in Young Children: What are the Signs and What to Do – Part 1
21 Feb 2016

Stress in Young Children: What are the Signs and What to Do – Part 1

by judy | posted in: About Your Kids | 0

What is going on with my girl?” A mom came to me and asked why her little girl was behaving in an unusual and puzzling way. She started full-day kindergarten this year, and over the course of each week, she … Continued

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  • Let’s Eat Out – Tips for Eating Out With Young Children

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